In His Own Words
About him
Honestly didn't imagine myself "here"
Last relationship ended after 20 years-both of us realising that we no longer had any mutual dreams & interests unfortunately following the kids (hers, mine, ours) growing up and flying the nest. With time we're learning how to be friends which is healthy. It was an unconventional relationship in as much as, although we had a child together we never lived together, this was because I had my own two small children from babies following the sad death of their mum after a short illness.
Looking forward to a vibrant future, hopefully.
I'm generally a very positive, some say blindly optimistic guy I think. I have an "inner boy" I'm afraid who loves adventure & travel.
I like to think I'm 50% masculine & 50% softy.I always try to be empathetic, supportive, caring, loving & affectionate without being "clingy" I'm quite happy in my own skin but life doesn't reach the same "highs" without someone to share those sun rises & sunsets with does it?
I'm not an "Alpha" male but am, hopefully, intelligent, articulate & can take the lead when the situation warrants.
"Action Man"no, but physically do look after myself as I do in all ways, own hair(no nose or ear hair!🤣), own teeth, no beer belly. I lightly work out daily & am mildly toned with a "rectangular frame" & chest not "moobs"!! 😁
Music tastes I think are a window into the essence of a person, mine:-Not keen on Country /easy (ie Cliff, Carpenters).More Amy Winehouse, Luther Vandross, George Michael, De La Soul, Soul2Soul, soul Motown, Club, House, Stones, Stereophonics. Most music (I also dj)
Comedy :Lee Mack, Jack Dee, Sarah Millican etc.
Future: No fixed ideas. Perhaps a house in the Med. I've a modest portfolio of rentals, currently starting to sell them, so not rooted to my location. I'm impulsive, was expected to go to Uni to do Fine Art, ended up in a "summer job" at 16 in Bahrain that my dad got me for Algosaibi(Emirs family), then Taylor Diving, ended up staying! Made up life as I went along since 🤗
About his ideal match
I live in Hampshire, have a base up North too. Someone that's read my intro, doesn't have the next 20 years mapped out & genuinely likes what they have read so far. Preferably not too far away but that really doesn't matter, as if we click, I'm bored silly of living in the same place anyway. I'm looking for someone that looks after themself without being vain or synthetic, someone that values experiences rather than possessions & passionate in all ways without being totally raving mad although I don't mind a little bit mad 🙂
If you're adventurous, happy, positive kind & reasonably strong emotionally we'll get on I'm sure, oh yes & like travel, I love it but haven't been able to go for the last 20 years & I fully intend to make up for lost time🙂
For starters is all I'm looking for is a coffee & chat with someone friendly & on the same page, it doesn't matter if we don't click, it would be an enriching experience for us both I'm sure and friendship for the future if nothing else.
If you are looking for an out of the box, slick, consummate professional executive then I'm not the guy for you.. Absolutely nothing wrong with that type of guy I'm sure, it's just not me🤭.. I would just add that, hopefully, you are looking for a soul mate, lover and best friend which is "me" not "interviewing" for a CEO or merger although I respect the fact that that might be right for you, but it isn't "me" 😊
I have lived and mostly enjoyed an unpredictable life sometimes falling flat on my bum but always picking myself up and getting on with it! If that resonates with you then I'd love to hear from you 😊
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Havant (Langstone), Hampshire, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
62 | |
Star sign: |
Sagittarius | |
Height: |
5' 11" (180cm) | |
Body type: |
Athletic | |
Looks: |
Above Average | |
Hair colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye colour: |
Brown | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship; Marriage; Something casual | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
Ask me later | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
University / College student | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Comfortable | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
42 - 69 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 0" (152cm) - 6' 1" (186cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Any | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
Any | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian; Vegan | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Any | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Ambitious; Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Mild; Optimistic; Philosophical; Realistic; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Patience; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite colour: |
Blue |
Hair style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses only when reading |
Facial hair: |
None |
Body hair: |
Light |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Alternative; Blues; Classical; Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; Folk; Gospel / Religious; Heavy Metal; Instrumental; Jazz; Latin; New Age; Opera; Pop / Top 40; Punk; R&B / Soul; Rap / Hip Hop; Reggae; Rock; World |
Reading: |
I read books occasionally |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Crime; Fantasy; History; Mystery; Non-fiction; Sci-Fi; Science / Technology; Self-help |
TV habits: |
I rarely watch television |
TV programmes: |
Action / Adventure; Cartoons; Comedy / Sit-coms; Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Motoring; Movie Channels; Music Channels; Nature/Wildlife; News; Sci-Fi |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Adult; Art Films; Black & White / Silent; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Horror; Independent; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Auto repair; Business news; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Internet; Investing; Meditation; Music; Painting; Photography; Politics; Pottery; Reading; Sculpting; The arts; Voluntary work; Woodwork |
Sports: |
Badminton; Basketball; Camping; Canoeing; Chess; Dance; Hiking; Horse Riding; Pool; Sailing; Scuba diving; Snorkeling; Swimming; Tennis; Walking; Windsurfing; Yoga |
Cooking: |
I love it! |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Fast food; Fine Dining; French; Gastro Pub; German; Greek; Indian; Italian; Pub Grub; Seafood; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Go with the flow |
Time at work: |
I work at home |
Pastimes of choice: |
Socialising with friends |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Family size: |
I've got brothers and sisters |
Family contact: |
I rarely see them |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm flexible |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Dog(s); Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious attendance: |
Rarely |
Dream home: |
On a beach |
Politics: |
Liberal |
Retirement plans: |
Seeing the world in style |
Feelings about using The Love Lab: |
Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Very |
