In His Own Words
About him
By nature, I'm a happy empath. That seems to upset some people, which I've never understood. Thankfully, I'm fairly stoical too.
I'm young and old(er), calm and passionate, clever and silly, philosophical and funny, kind and honest, naughty and sensible....so, like a lot of you, I'm a lot of things, too.
A lover of words, but never a grammar/thesaurus pedant. A lover of music (my work) but never a snob. Using words and music, I can learn, forever.
I cherish being on my own but, just as much, being in company too; being extremely sociable or a passive observer.
I'm tactile yet very respectful of others, particularly women; caring and tolerant...maybe too much. We live and learn. Or, we don't.
You'll probably be quite similar (but in a divergent way) and yet we'll share some/many things in common.
A Good listener, love food/flavours, languages, brains, quizzes, learning as we go.
...that's more than 20 words, surely?...😅
(Can I just add, that if you do drop me a line-for which, thankyou- and I don't respond, it's not because I'm being rude or disrespectful).
About his ideal match
As per the above.
A mixture of intriguing, interesting, questioning, passionate characteristics and personality traits, guided by innate kindness and passion, decency and honesty.
Ultimately, be your free-est and happi-est self.
Great luck 👍🕺👍🕺
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Saxmundham, Suffolk, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
62 | |
Star sign: |
Virgo | |
Height: |
5' 9" (175cm) | |
Body type: |
Athletic | |
Looks: |
Ask me later | |
Hair colour: |
Red | |
Eye colour: |
Blue | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship; Something casual | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
Ask me later | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Postgraduate | |
Occupation: |
Arts / Music / Writing | |
Income: |
Enough | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
French; German; Italian | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in the United Kingdom | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
52 - 60 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 0" (152cm) - 5' 9" (176cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
Any | ||
Daily diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally; Several times a week; Most days | ||
Education: |
University / College student; Further education; University; Postgraduate; Private school | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Asian; Latino/Hispanic; White/Caucasian; Mixed; Black/Caribbean descent | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
French; German; Italian; Japanese; Swedish | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Obscure |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Outgoing; Philosophical; Realistic; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Hair style: |
Medium |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Body hair: |
Average |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Alternative; Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Electronic Dance Music; Folk; Instrumental; Latin; Opera; Pop / Top 40; Rock; World |
Reading: |
I read books occasionally; I read newspapers occasionally; I read magazines occasionally |
Books: |
Fantasy; Fiction; History; Non-fiction; Sci-Fi; Science / Technology |
TV habits: |
I rarely watch television |
TV programmes: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Movie Channels; Nature/Wildlife; Sport; Talk shows |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Art Films; Comedy; Drama; Independent; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Acting; Board games; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Music; Reading; Singing; The arts; Woodwork; Writing books |
Sports: |
Camping; Cycling; Rugby; Skiing; Swimming; Tennis; Walking |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
French; Gastro Pub; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Pub Grub; Seafood; Sushi; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at work: |
I work part-time |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time outdoors |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take drugs: |
Never |
Family size: |
I've got sisters |
Family contact: |
I rarely see them |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s); Dog(s); Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping |
Turn-offs: |
Assertiveness; Power; Sarcasm; Thrill seeking |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious attendance: |
I'm non-practising |
Dream home: |
In the country |
Retirement plans: |
Travelling cross-country in a mobile home |
Feelings about using The Love Lab: |
Curious |
Honesty: |
Extremely |