In His Own Words
About him
I'm artistic, and engaged in literature, art and performance. I'm very fit indeed, as I dance a lot - mainly the tango, though in Rio - where I've been for the last three months- I have learnt samba de gafieira. I am unattached at present, and back in London, and treating all this in a light-hearted way, but I'm open to the possibility of an initially casual encounter leading to something deeper. I'm very supportive if I respect what you do - excellence in the arts, imagination, being a damn good writer - these are the sort of things that count for me - and I'm also very good at giving feedback. I like seeing exhibitions, and long holidays for creative inspiration, and I work very hard at my artistic enterprises.
I've performed internationally, had my poems published regularly, run a department in an art-school, taught creative writing in prisons, teach dance and performance, and teach a dance class for people with Parkinson's Disease. I love going for walks in forests, and I collect waterfalls, in the sense that I love to visit them, and find new ones to visit. I grew up in the country, and however steeped in the city I am, I am a country boy at heart. I love horse-riding and skiing but don't do either as much as I would like to. I love a good conversation.
About his ideal match
I love women who are intelligent, witty, deep, and agile in mind and body. Also I like people who are open-minded, not that I'm into anything particularly kinky, but I do like words and actions to be unbridled. That said, initially I prefer a slow, relaxed approach. I am a little shy when it comes to expressing myself physically and have to get to know someone fairly well before risking the exposure of my feelings.
I love curiosity and a good imagination. I love exploring wild nature together with someone, and sharing unforgettable experiences. I am a fan of waterfalls. I accept that this may be a fling with no strings, but if it does deepen into something more (which is what I am keen on ultimately) we need to be able to talk, and I love chatting about the arts obviously but also about the wretchedness of contemporary politics, Shiva, palaeontology, meteorology, film noire, nouvelle vague or material, Schumann, George Michael, Valdepenas, bull-fighting and fox-hunting (which I give my thumbs up to, as I do to the legalisation of more or less everything).
I'm trying to improve my Spanish, so a Spanish speaker might be nice, but it's by no means a requirement, and otherwise anything goes. You should probably enjoy dancing and writing, since when I'm not doing one I'm doing the other - with the odd interlude in a gallery. I very much enjoy photography as well as painting, and I love reading what my (hypothetical) girlfriend has written, or looking at her paintings or watching her performances.
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Haringey (Tottenham Hale), London, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
59 | |
Star sign: |
Aries | |
Height: |
5' 7" (170cm) | |
Body type: |
Athletic | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Balding | |
Eye colour: |
Brown | |
Relationship Status: |
Ask me later | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship; Something casual | |
Have children: |
Ask me later | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Postgraduate | |
Occupation: |
Arts / Music / Writing | |
Income: |
Solvent | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
French; Spanish | |
Religion: |
Atheist |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 60 miles of postcode district N17 (London) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
23 - 45 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
4' 7" (140cm) or shorter - 5' 7" (171cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Athletic; Full figured | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Any | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Never; Occasionally | ||
Drinking: |
Never; Occasionally | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Administrative / Secretarial; Arts / Music / Writing; Food / Catering; Legal; Medical / Dental / Veterinary; Political / Government; Self-employed; Student; Teaching / Education / Training; Science / Engineering / Research; Other; Agriculture; Media; Consultancy / Design; Home maker; Leisure / Tourism | ||
Income: |
Any | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Caustic |
Intelligence: |
Highbrow |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Ambitious; Confident; Funny; Happy; Intelligent; Loving; Philosophical |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Friendliness; Humour; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Favourite clothing: |
I'm most comfortable naked |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses and contacts |
Facial hair: |
I have a goatee |
Body hair: |
Smooth |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk |
Music preferences: |
Classical; Dance / Disco; Instrumental; Jazz; Latin; Opera; R&B / Soul; Rap / Hip Hop; Reggae; World |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read newspapers regularly |
Books: |
Fiction; History; Non-fiction; Science / Technology |
TV habits: |
I rarely watch television |
TV programmes: |
Movie Channels |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Adult; Art Films; Comedy; Drama; Mystery; War; Westerns |
Interests: |
Cooking; Music; Painting; Reading; Sculpting; The arts; Writing poetry |
Sports: |
Dance; Fencing; Horse Riding; Hunting; Skiing; Snorkeling; Swimming; Table Tennis; Water skiing; White water rafting |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Doesn't matter |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at work: |
I work at home |
Pastimes of choice: |
Visiting a museum or gallery |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take drugs: |
Not any more |
Family size: |
I'm an only child |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
Not at all |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Dog(s); Reptile(s); Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Power; Skinny dipping; Wealth |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious attendance: |
Never |
Dream home: |
On a beach |
Politics: |
Anarchic |
Retirement plans: |
Seeing the world in style |
Honesty: |
Quite |