In Her Own Words
About her
I value genuine connection over small talk — good conversation, music (particularly Country, although I have eclectic tastes), and relaxed time with good company matter a lot to me. I also really enjoy the arts and anything thoughtful or creative.
Books and reading are a big part of my life, along with spending time in nature — especially birdwatching and pottering in my garden. I notice small details and enjoy the quiet rhythm of everyday life. I tend to pick up different interests over time and enjoy learning new things along the way.
I love good coffee — it’s part of a slow morning ritual for me. I also enjoy simple, grounded moments that make life feel real and unhurried, like pausing for herbal teas during the day or taking time over a meal.
Overall, I enjoy a balanced life: calm moments, interesting conversation, music or local events, and spending time with people who share similar values.
About her ideal match
Someone who enjoys good conversation, simple pleasures, and taking time to get to know each other without pressure. I’m mainly looking to meet someone for companionship and shared time — coffee, walks, music, and conversation — and see how things naturally unfold without forcing anything. Ideally someone within a reasonable distance, so meeting up is easy and relaxed rather than a logistical challenge.
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About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Southend-on-Sea (Leigh on Sea), Essex, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
47 | |
Star sign: |
Virgo | |
Height: |
5' 6" (168cm) | |
Body type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Light Brown | |
Eye colour: |
Ask me later | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens | |
Have children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Ask me later | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Several times a week | |
Education: |
Ask me later | |
Occupation: |
Teaching / Education / Training | |
Income: |
Ask me later | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 60 miles of postcode district SS9 (Leigh-on-Sea) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
36 - 56 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 10" (177cm) - 6' 11" (210cm) or taller | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Red; Black; Greying; Grey; White; Bald; Balding; Shaved | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
No; Maybe | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian; Vegan | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Never; Occasionally; Several times a week | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Dry |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Personality traits: |
Cautious; Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Outspoken; Philosophical; Quiet; Realistic; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Charity; Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Hair style: |
Medium; Straight |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses only when reading |
Body art: |
Several tattoos |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Alternative; Classical; Country & Western; Folk; Instrumental; New Age; Opera; Punk; R&B / Soul; Reggae; Rock; World |
Reading: |
I read books regularly |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Fiction; Non-fiction; Religious; Romance |
TV programmes: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Movie Channels; Nature/Wildlife |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Documentary; Independent; Romance |
Interests: |
Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Meditation; Music; Reading; The arts; Woodwork; Writing poetry |
Sport involvement: |
Not involved at all |
Sports: |
Birdwatching; Dance; Yoga |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Fine Dining; Greek; Italian; Japanese; Seafood; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
Other |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at work: |
I work part-time |
Pastimes of choice: |
Reading a book |
Take drugs: |
Never |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
Not at all |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Dancing; Intelligence |
Turn-offs: |
Erotica; Power; Skinny dipping |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious attendance: |
Doesn't apply |
Dream home: |
In the country |
Feelings about using The Love Lab: |
Curious |
Honesty: |
Extremely |